This chapter was about personality, so I am just going to tell about what my personality is and how good and bad it is for me.
I have a pretty good personality to start off with but it can sometimes get me into trouble. I try to be as nice as possible with saying "Ya I can do that," or "Ya no problem." I can only take so much of it. Here's a story about one of those moments where I just had enough and blew up at someone.
One of my friends asked me about 3 weeks ago to ran with her. Of course, I said sure. I thought she just meant for that day because one of her other friends that she was suppose to ran with, wouldn't. SO it went for about 2 weeks and I had enough. I told her that I didn't want to ran and that I didn't like just running. She told me that I was running, that was the end of the line. I told her that actually I wasn't going to run and that me and my boyfriend were going to do something fun that involved working out. After that she hasn't really talked to me as much as she use to. So my personality got me in trouble because now I kinda lost a close friend.
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Hey I wonder who you are talking about?! :) Anyways, I know what you mean with always feeling like you have to say yes just to make people happy. I do the same thing and although it seems like it should keep you happy and make life easier, it actually doesn't. I think after people catch on, they kind of abuse the fact that they know you will just do whatever they ask you to, and after awhile you feel pretty crappy that people are just basically using you. So, the question is.. Is being nice and trying to please everyone actually a good trait to have? It's nice, but it ends up kind of sucky!
ReplyDeleteI also have that problem. I don't think it's a good trait to have, for the most part. I mean, it's good to a certain extent. You don't want to always say no just to say no. You need to have a happy medium.
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